Failure means you are not even worthy; Failure means that a particular effort did not produce the expected results.
First, accept failure: When many people fail, I convince myself that it's not my fault, the timing was bad, others didn't give me a chance, okay, admitting I didn't get the results I expected doesn't mean giving up.
Make time for emotions: Failure is followed by sadness, disappointment, shame, or fear. It is natural not to make decisions right away. I'm frustrated now; I'll calm down first and then analyze.
Separate Failure and Identification:
Incorrect: I failed the exam, so I am a failure.
Correct: I failed the exam. My current preparation was not enough.
Find out why it failed: Why I couldn't succeed? Preparation was poor, planning was wrong, time management was bad. There was low skill, wrong strategy, wrong assumption, communication problem, external circumstances.
Take responsibility for your mistakes:
You may not be responsible for all failures, they are within my control, preparation, Effort, Discipline, communication, learning.
Out of my control: Other people's decisions, sudden circumstances, market changes, environment, but also unexpected events
Failure Analysis: What I wanted to do, what happened, why it happened, what I will change next time
*** Why asks five times, analyze what you learned from failure, don't repeat the same mistake, don't
repeat the same mistake, Comparisons need to be stopped. ***
'Failure==Accept==Calm==Analyze==Learn==Change==Practice==Try Again==Review==Improve'

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